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Looking
back on Sand Beach
by
Marie
Date: 2/23/2010
Comments: Horton House, Sand Beach in early 1930s
My two brothers and I were ages 5, 3 & 1 when our family moved into
the Horton House in Sand Beach in the Spring of 1934, and there we lived,
explored, grew up and learned new things until May 1941 when our father
was transferred to Halifax by Canada Customs.
Someone said a Mr. Fisher had been living there before us, and he had
a little store in the front room facing the dirt road; the room with the
‘store’ was at the north side of the house. The large empty room
still had some removable shelves standing up against the rear wall, and
on the bottom shelf we children found a delightful surprise, a small flat
box that contained new green packages of Doublemint gum –a whole boxful!
We had never seen gum before, but my elder brother and I liked the minty
smell and taste. We chewed but it would not dissolve, so we swallowed gobs
of it and went for more –until our mother caught us with the empty wrappers,
and our new-found fun vanished in an instant –never to be repeated. When
we were older our dad made spruce gum from trees which made for healthier
and stronger teeth.
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There was so much to explore, inside and outside. The house had
three exits and two entry ways: front door toward the road, side door toward
the back yard, and another exit-way from the back porch down to the woodshed
where winter wood was kept and where kindling wood was cut each evening,
also a 3-seater outhouse –a lower seat for small children. Still
under the same indoor passage-way a little further on, there was a milking
stall with place for milking stool and milk pails.
There was a “hennery” (a place “used to house domestic fowl”), which
was a long well-ordered building that held our dad’s several dozen Plymouth
Rock hens of which he was so proud -- some gray and some white-- and it
had special round incubators for hatching chicks, and places for gathering
fresh eggs, sometimes double-yolked ones, to our added delight.
There was a separate larger barn down toward pasture, with spaces for
a horse stall, cows, pig pen, garden plow, grass mower, scythes, cart,
wheelbarrow, and whatever else came with the place. The hennery had
many windows all along the south side of the long structure. How tempting
it was for a child heading to the meadow for blueberries, long-handled
dipper in hand, to bat out several of those more reachable small panes
of glass! And how keenly felt, a few swats with said dipper across
a small boy's corduroy covered bottom! Part of his restitution was to help
soften with his little hands, lots of smelly putty our father used for
securing replacements. At times on rainy days we would play in woodshed,
or inside the entrance to the hennery, but our most fun was inside the
house itself on those days.
[There are still some places “Up the Bay” around Church Point
and those older places that have a covered structure from the house to
the main barn, all under the one extended roof, and over the decades those
structures always reminded me of the Horton place in Sand Beach in the
early 1930s.]
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In season, the stonewall that separated the back yard from the pasture
and meadow, was covered with beautifully perfumed climbing Honeysuckle,
and later on, large juicy blackberries. In front of the stone wall was
an apple tree that produced a profusion of sweet-smelling apple blossoms
every Spring. Often I climbed on top of the stone wall and studied the
blossoms very closely for a long time.
I came to know the beauty God gave these simple creatures, not only
their beauty in shape, structure and colour, but especially their captivating
scent.
These were all new experiences for us children; the universe was opening
up to us a little at a time and it was so beautiful and exciting, inspired
in us such wonder and awe. Before long we were old enough to notice
our first yard full of yellow dandelion and later on an abundance of daisies
and then golden buttercup. The meadow was almost carpeted in spots
with lovely purple violets, and down along the rocky and dusty road the
ditches were lined with rainbow shades of tall and majestic lupins! They
looked like slender princesses in their glorious pastel gowns.
[In case the reader thinks my description is too one-sided, too
idyllic, I must say there were the uglier experiences too, such as getting
hen droppings on our clothes, or worse, that of cats! sneakers stuck in
cow flats, June bugs upstairs in the house, mouse in the porch in a rubber
boot! Spankings for disobedience, mischief, or for fighting with one another,
for being “sassy” and for sticking out our tongue at a temporarily un-favorite
adult after some confrontation, and so on! But everybody goes through that
other natural side of life, so that here we portray some balance, perhaps.]
When we were old enough to go to school, we saw in places along the
roadway long stretches of friendly alders from which some very fine whistles
and pea-shooters were made. The ‘peas’ for the shooters grew by the wayside
as well, little “bee-bees” the tiny seeds were called, and most boys kept
a pocket full of them. Some called them “mouse peas”. (Picture is
of Beach Peas)
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The boy on the pony was one of the Jenkins children. Zeno and I visited
them and that's the time they gave us some of the rose bush, and Mrs Jenkins
kindly gave us this lovely picture. It shows the back of the big square
house Grandpa Theodore Doucette lived in and where my father, Wallace,
grew up, so I was delighted to have this picture. That picture was
given me in the 1970s by Mrs Jenkins, whose family was living in the big
house in Sand Beach that my grandparents had lived in from 1912 until the
onset of the second world war in 1939 |
Horton House, Sand Beach in early 1930s Part 2
Our Jersey cow gave all the milk, cream, butter and buttermilk needed
for our family. We children watched in awe while our father, and sometimes
our mother, milked the gentle "Bossy" who looked at us with her big brown
eyes. We children were taught to respect the three-legged stool that our
father kept hanging way up high on a spike ever since the day he had to
hunt for it. We had taken it for our makeshift play house in the woodshed.
Other spikes there held an interesting assortment of old horseshoes, pieces
of rope, leather harness and whatnot.
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Our dad had an iron "last", or shoe form, for repairing leather shoes
for all the family, and many a time we watched as he tacked on a new leather
half-sole over the old one that had a hole worn right through it. The iron
last had two sizes, one side for adult shoes and the other end for children's
and ladies’ small sizes. It was such a treat to have new soles on our worn
shoes, and new hard rubber "lifts" put on the run-down heels. For us it
was better than having a brand new pair.
Mostly everything one can name, that was in every day use, was hand
made in those days, including furniture, and clothing, so every homestead
had tools and whatever was needed to work with in order to produce all
that was required.
Meals were cooked at home and ordinarily all the family ate together
seated around the kitchen table, which was so welcoming with its pretty
flowered oilcloth. But on Sundays in summertime and during Christmas time
and special days, our family usually ate in the dining room with its large
table covered with a special linen tablecloth. Both parents were good cooks,
but especially our father who, at a young age, had apprenticed at hotels
and restaurants in Boston,.
For dessert on Sundays our mother would cut up a bowl of orange sections
and sprinkle sugar over them, a very special treat. Other special days
there might be each a piece of cake or dish of bread pudding, all made
in the oven of our big iron kitchen stove.
[I cannot resist stating an opinion now, in 2010, that no cake or pudding
of today, in fact no meal whatsoever, tastes as good and rich and wholesome
as those made in the 1930s. In fact, nothing we call food today tastes
anything like real food as we knew it before the war when everything produced
was still pure and simple.]
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The Horton House must have been quite elegant in its early days, and
seemingly built for a well-to-do family. Inside, there were two sets of
stairs, back and front. The back stairs off the kitchen led to servants
quarters above, while the front led to the master’s quarters. A magnificent
front stairway boasted a shapely wide railing –one that we children would
find perfect for sliding down! The stair steps ended in a wide curve at
the bottom and the fancy railing followed suit. It ended in a circular
form, leaving a flat round stand upon which an arriving gentleman could
momentarily set his hat while removing his overcoat –or, upon which a child
could sit after having slid down the rail to the bottom, before leaping
with a thump to the hall floor.
Under the front stairway was a spacious closet with large shelves but
no light, so when the door was closed it was very dark inside, and a nice
hiding place. Former tenants had stored there several dozens of wonderful
magazines. When I discovered those, I would go un-noticed to sit in there
for a long time, leaving the door open just enough to see the colored pictures
in those magazines, one after another.
One day my mother tried to punish me for being disobedient, so she sent
me into that closet and closed the door –until I would apologize, which
I stubbornly refused to do. She said she would leave me there until I conformed,
which I was determined I would not do.
I was not afraid, because the place was so familiar to me, and those
magazines I considered my friends, so I pulled them from their stacks and
spread them all over the closet floor and lay down on top of them and was
ready to spend the rest of my life there, I thought.
After a while, my mother. curious about my silence, opened the door
a bit and peeped in and saw me lying there contented. She ordered me to
re-stack the magazines, which I started doing just because I wanted to.
The door remained open and the whole issue was soon forgotten.
[The big "issue" was that we children were just beginning to learn English.
Too young for school, we had to pick up the language of our neighbours
from their children.
One neighbour girl told me my "yes" was too Frenchy-sounding. She coached
me: "Don’t say ‘yiss’or "yess", say ya-ass!
So I learned to say ya-ass, but my mother did not like the sound of
that pronunciation one bit, so she told me to say "yes". But I would not,
thinking it sounded "too Frenchy", and I could not understand her disdain
for my way of saying it.
So she would leave me in the dark magazine closet under the main stairs,
until I would say "yes". I would not make myself sound Frenchy on purpose,
and risk being ridiculed for it by neighbourhood children.
I think perhaps children instinctively obey peers rather than parents
where there is conflict of popular opinion. Anyway, by the time I was a
student at school I dropped the ya-ass and learned to say yes like everybody
else.
And in order to be able to read my Acadian history, I had to study hard
to learn French (for the first time)–which I did do with firm determination
after a fierce struggle with Grandmere Rosalie who insisted I speak in
French or she would not talk to me any more. But I could not speak French
and she didn’t believe it, so that, broken-hearted over Grandmere’s stubbornness,
I, with equal stubbornness vowed to study French one day, which I did do
in later years. All my thanks to Grandmere Rosalie Doucette!]
I think now that my mother was secretly proud of me for being more stubborn
than she was! That is my main and fond vivid memory of the front hall closet
under the big stairway.
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While the front hall stairs went up to the large and bright rooms in
the front part of the house, a narrow closed-in one from the back porch
took one up to the servant quarters toward the back. My parents used some
of those rooms for storing trunks and suitcases and other things they were
keeping for use at some future time. Also, it was a great place for us
children to play Farm, Soldiers, or Chinese checkers and Jacks, or color
in our coloring books when we couldn’t be outside. My own favorite playthings
were dolls and paper dolls, tea sets and coloring books. My brothers liked
what they called "funny books" (comic books) and Big-Little books.
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The Horton house had two fine pantries, the regular large one just off
the kitchen, with space for a barrel of flour and large breadboard, breadbox,
and all the necessary cooking and baking supplies. Cookware was hung up
on special hooks that were fastened to sturdy boards high up on the wall
that kept the pots and pans visible and handy, yet out of the way.
There was also what we children learned was called a "butler’s pantry".
It was between the kitchen and the dining room. We asked lots of questions
about butlers and why a man had a pantry, but we still could not identify
with any of it, but it was fascinating for our imagination.
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We were satisfied that we had access to this pantry’s two wonderful
swinging doors. The door next to the kitchen had a small cut-out door with
a slide opener and a small shelf just large enough for a platter of food,
The door that swung into the dining room had a small peep hole affair at
average height for the butler to peer through to keep watch over every
need and desire of his table guests. All this I tucked away in memories,
and they are still there, only to resurface now, for some strange reason!
Mainly thanks to this wonderful website that gives me such freedom to tell
my Horton House Story "as is".
We children heard stories about wealthy people having lived there and
were served by a hired butler and at least one maid. Servants could walk
from the kitchen and through the butler pantry with trays of prepared meals,
right into dining room without having to stop to turn a door knob. They
only had to slip through them somehow, tray held high and steady.
The shelves in the butler pantry were wide and deep, and in times gone
by they surely held a variety of fine chinaware sets, goblets, silverware,
linens, white cotton gloves, candles, wines, and so on. The floor had a
hatch that led to a small wine cellar down under the floor where it was
cool.
When our family lived there, the varnished shelves, cabinets and drawers
were empty, and the place was dark. There was a light bulb hanging from
the ceiling on a length of yellowish asbestos-covered and twisted electrical
cord, and the light had a beaded pull chain. But there was no light, no
electric hookup when we were there, we had only kerosene lamps and candles.
The kitchen had electric switch buttons on the wall near two of the doors,
the top button was white, and when it was pushed in, the light was supposed
to go on. The black button just below the white one was to shut off the
light. Try as we might, we could not get those buttons to work, no matter
how many times we pushed those buttons in. Now another story, one of my
favorite memories, and it too takes in the butler pantry!
When one of the new babies came along –about 1936 in the summertime,
our other Grandma, Mary Elizabeth Amirault, came from Center East Pubnico
to Sand Beach to stay with us for a few days. During that time a powerful
thunderstorm arose, something Grandma did not like one bit, and it made
her very nervous. She looked for a place without windows where she could
wait out the storm. She took me with her, took a stool for her to sit on
and I had the highchair, because I was only five.. Our arms rested on the
top of the buffet counter where Grandma had placed a lighted candle that
was kept in a metal holder. She put that in front of her and took from
her purse a small bottle of holy water and her rosary beads, blessed herself,
sprinkled everything with holy water, and started to pray in French while
I sat there in silence with her, and without moving. Sometimes the crashing
sound would interrupt her prayer and I’d hear her counting, cinq, six,
sept, to see if the storm was still coming or going away.
We saw none of the bright flashes of lightning but the thunder boomed
and echoed for miles out over the Atlantic from whence it came. I wonder
if it was that day when I absorbed her phobia that lasted for several decades,
until I decided how useless it is to be afraid of it or to worry about
it. That is my most vivid memory of the butler’s pantry in the Horton House
in Sand Beach.
Horton House, Sand Beach in early 1930s Part 3
The kitchen and dining room had access to each other through other doors
as well. It was a most interesting house for us children to explore!
The dining room when we lived there was my favorite place, perhaps because
it had become our family room. In winter a heat stove called a "base burner"
that looked like a pot-bellied stove, kept the whole room, and us, warm
and comfortable. My first memory of it was the time my father carried me
downstairs wrapped in a blanket, and settled me down in a highchair just
a few feet from the base burner. He came from the kitchen with a saucer
of warm porridge and placed it on the little tray. As I awkwardly spooned
in the porridge I kept watching the little square shaped isinglass windows
on the stove door. These were brightly glowing mica squares that brightened
reddish and almost to a whiteness when the fire inside the stove was its
hottest. That stove could radiate tremendous heat, and we children were
taught to keep our distance from it.
The dining room’s main feature was the beautiful bay window. It was
a favorite place to stand and watch snow or rain coming down, or on a windy
day to watch hundreds of daisies bending over in the fields.
Raindrops made small rivulets on the window pane as new drops clung
to other drops and ran down as fast as a mouse could run!
Snowflakes were fascinating to study through the double windows in winter.
Jack Frost (we were told) painted beautiful fairy patterns on the glass
on frigid days. Everything was so delightful when we were just becoming
aware and noticing new and interesting things for the first time.
The dining room was the place where we celebrated Christmas and all
‘twelve days’ and more. What a surprise for us on Christmas morning. Without
us suspecting, our dad had brought a big tree from the woods, and set it
up on the 24th, when he and our mother decorated it with the most fascinating
glass ornaments one could imagine! There was shiny tinsel and many pipe-cleaner
Santas of all colors. Usually, in those days, gentlemen cleaned their smoking
pipes with those sturdy white pipe cleaners, but these small, fuzzy and
skinny Santas were made of the same material and came in all colors, purple,
pink, yellow, red, blue, green, white and so on. And we found them hiding
all over the tree, also candy canes and round popcorn balls that were wrapped
in colorfully designed wax paper. On the floor under the tree were a great
assortment of new toys, which gave us children great delight.
The dining room fireplace must have been connected at one time to that
of the parlor or what we called the front room of the house, toward the
road. The fireplaces had been closed in, and were back to back from each
other on the wall that divided the two rooms. There were two tall and spacious
chimney closets in the dining room, one on either side of the fireplace.
That’s where Santa had stored in advance some of the gifts, thinking surely
they would not be discovered there before Christmas. Both fireplaces had
a very large mantle piece upon which sat a special parlor clock that had
been wedding gifts to our parents only six or seven years earlier. On the
parlor mantle piece stood a couple of naked celluloid Kewpie dolls because,
much to my chagrin, a gift that was too fragile to be played with. (That
was one of the more sorrowful memories for me,)
Christmas time was so wonderful in the Horton House! Barely noticed
were the big dining room table that was made to be extended even longer,
and eight lovely chairs with their high backs that had been carved in beautiful
designs, dark stained and varnished. Two or three oil lamps were placed
on that table when we spent evenings there.
Some years, for greater convenience, we had our meals in the kitchen
where it was always warm from the big stove. Our parents prepared special
Christmas meals, but we children were not very hungry because we had opened
our stockings that Santa had filled and left hanging under the mantle piece
above the fireplace. We were busy playing with our toys most of the day.
Our Uncle Harry, not yet married then, spent a few Christmases with
us, and always he brought a large brown paper bag filled with delicious
peanuts in the shells. He would hang the bag high up on the door frame,
and we could have some if we could reach them! The highchair was the solution,
and down came the bag, peanuts and all. We sat on the big couch with our
kind and gentle uncle, responding to his teasing, listening to his stories
and spreading peanut shells all over the place, leaving one more job for
our mother.
After supper, toward evening when lamps were lit, our mother would take
out a box that held many special Christmas greeting cards from relatives
and friends from many places. What a joy it was to see those beautifully
decorated cards and to hear our mother read the messages and letters! Each
one was different and special, some with red velour, lacy paper, cut-out
and pop-up cards for children, some with colored crinkled cellophane, sparkley
snow, windows, stars, and pictures of all kinds. Some had wonderful big
Santa Claus and sleigh on them, also reindeer. Some had baby Jesus in the
manger.
I had a special fascination for colored pictures, and for greeting cards,
and that trait holds to this day. Every one seems to be, for me, a kind
of ‘presence’ of the sender, and they are so special that I cannot throw
them out. (I don’t understand what caused me to become so sentimental –but
if I were not, I surely would not be sitting here writing all this stuff!
..smile: ).
Those memories are unforgettable because of the delight they held for
us at that time when we lived in the Horton House. Those are real memories
of our time spent there in the large dining room.
The front room toward the south side of the house was darkish and seldom
used, perhaps only for summer visitors from the States. We children were
not allowed to play in there. For me it contained a drab and dark colored
velour sofa and two matching chairs, a few uninteresting occasional tables,
old fashioned lace doilies, old style lamps and vases, window curtains
and thick drapes on both windows, and a square on the floor like a Persian
rug –the most boring and uninspiring room in the whole house, I felt. It
was all too ancient and too quiet and mysterious, surely a remnant from
someone’s musty past. Had it at one time been a smoking room, or what?
In its favor, I can say that it was a convenience at times when one wanted
to see up or down the road.
Across the hall from it had been the delightful shop or store, with
the shelves, which our father took down in order to make it a lovely bedroom
with new paint and wallpaper, even a new flowered linoleum square on the
floor. We are told that this special room was the birthplace of one sibling.
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continues ...........
Sun, 07 Feb 2010
I received the old picture of Grandpa's house in Sand Beach from
Dad's sister, my aunt Rosabelle {Doucette} Snarr.
She and my father were close in age, -two of the younger bunch in the
family, so they grew up there, practically. They went to South End School
and then to the Yarmouth Academy I think it was.
This
picture of the Theodore Doucette home in Sand Beach was from the collection
of his daughter, "Rosabelle" (Doucette) Snarr.
Grandpere Theodore moved there in 1912, He died in November 1935. Grandmere
Rosalie (Surette) Doucette remained there until wartime when she and youngest
son Ellis moved to Halifax, where Rosalie died in 1946.
The Horton house picture was snapped by my husband-to-be in June 1954.
The window that is just above my head in that picture was my bedroom window
when I was growing up.
The "old" Yarmouth Light used to shine in that window most nights! When
it was not shining, the foghorn was sounding its descending moan.
My brothers slept in the room with the window at the front, right next
to my room. Outside that window there was a high railing around the turret
or balcony, and we sometimes climbed out that window, which was several
feet directly below the peak of the house. We climbed out on that little
roof until our mother would catch us and warn us never to open that window
again.
But that railing has been gone for a long time now. On that fenced-in
balcony there were two corner posts, each topped with a round wooden ball
or cap. When these caps became old and weather-worn , they became like
a hollow shell. The wind used to make them spin round and round at various
speeds, slowly for a while, then spinning wildly in the stronger gusts
and gales. The rattling sound of those two wooden shells spinning erratically
on the posts, together with sounds of the howling wind in the trees and
past the windows, made eerie and fearsome sounds in our young ears.
Our mother reassured us right away, saying something like, "Oh, Daddy
is going out there on a fine day and take care of those loose tops on the
posts so you won’t hear them spinning in the wind any more. That’s all
it is, now go to sleep." We closed our eyes, and next thing we knew,
we were awakening to another beautiful Sand Beach morning.
Marie
This
is a picture of the house Grandfather Theodore Doucette's lived in from
1912 until his death in November 1935. It was on the left side of the road
going toward town, and about five places up from the Horton House.
I forget if I ever knew who had the place before Grandfather moved in
from Wedgeport with his very large family. The older ones in the family
were adults while the younger set attended South End School in town. My
father, Wallace Peter Doucette was age 6 when they moved in there.
A few years ago I met the Jenkins family who were living in that house
and they kindly dug up some roots of "Grandpa’s climbing roses" for us
and we have those few roots transplanted and growing near our own house
in PEI. marie
marie
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Date: 12/6/2009
Name: marie
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Sand Beach School at Christmas time
in the 1930s
Winters in Sand Beach
in the 1930s were fun for children and challenging for adults. I remember
lots of snow every Christmas. I can remember looking out our front room
window and watching men shovelling banks of snow to break the road open
enough to make it passable. Some men had a car or truck, but not
many. I remember in December of 1940 my brother and I getting a ride from
church in a truck driven by a cousin who lived down Wyman Road. When
we arrived home we were delighted to learn that we had a new little sister!
Saint Nick and his reindeer
never had a problem getting around Sand Beach, and Christmas time was the
highlight of winter. Teachers and parents and the whole school of
children were busy and excited getting ready for the Christmas concert.
Children made decorations while adults arranged a stage on the teacher’s
platform in front of the one-room school. All turned to magic for
that one event. We sang carols we had been practicing all month long,
and some talented pupils sang solos, while others gave recitations.
Some from the higher grades performed skits and little plays after which
Santa passed out gifts from under the beautifully decorated big tree that
was cut down from nearby woods. On it had appeared pretty popcorn
balls, candy canes, shiny tinsel and many ornaments including pipe-cleaner
Santas and Elves of every color. It was amazing the excitement when
all the community young and old had gathered in that little old school
house to celebrate this special time of year. How joyful and cheerful everybody
was!
Santa’s elves passed out
little white bags of “hard mix” candies of many delicious flavors: cloves
and lemon were my favorites back then. There was a long school holiday,
lasting from before Christmas till about January 7. When we returned
to school we told stories about our Christmas at home, and how we spent
Christmas vacation. We told one another what Santa had brought, and
how we spent our day at home.
But when I asked some
cousins from Kelly’s Cove way, I was surprised and baffled to learn that
they had Christmas like everybody else, went to church and had a fine dinner
and so on, but that they did not receive their Christmas gifts until “Petit
Noel” or what some called “Old Christmas” which is January 6, the feast
of the Epiphany, when three Kings from the Orient brought gifts to the
Christ Child. That is the feast many of our Acadian ancestors exchanged
gifts, the day children received a visit from Saint Nicholas. This
was most interesting to me especially when I began to understand that these
were also my own ancestors! I learned all this from my little cousins who
lived way down below Sand Beach.
Children received practical
gifts such as home knit mittens, caps and stockings, along with a few toys
and candies.
Most families had a sled
or two, usually home made. Some older boys made what they called a double-runner,
which seems to have been two sleds, one on each end of a long wide board,
making something like a toboggan upon which several children could speed
downhill, that is if all could hang on all the way down, but usually some
would fall off part way down. It was lots of fun.
I remember two kinds of
sleds, the flat little wooden ones for younger children with no steering,
and the higher ones that had handles that one could use to steer right
or left. I remember older children being gone for hours and when
they got back home they had been sliding down “Kinney’s Hill” wherever
that was, but the younger ones had to stay at home and slide down the big
snowbanks in the yard.
Rappie Pie was standard
fare for many Acadians, and my Dad being a very good cook, made the best
I ever tasted. I believed he also made the best biscuits and donuts.
My cousins on the Wyman Road made the very best strawberry jam, and Aunt
Carrie made the very best hot chocolate ever!
Those were some memories
from Sand Beach School at Christmas time in the 1930s . Marie
Date: 10/26/2009
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Comments: Edith Cavell
Goodwin
In 1937 my mother had
a “maid’ or “servant girl”. That is what mothers’ helpers were still
called in those days. I’m not sure what these workers are called nowadays.
I never did take to the term baby-sitter because I would have to be able
to imagine that first! Who was ever able to ‘sit’ while having little
children around! But our live-in “Maid” was Edith Cavell Goodwin.
Even though she came from about a mile away, she made her home with us
in the big Horton House.
My mother always said
Edith was the best maid she ever had. “She could just go right ahead
and do what she knew needed to be done without me telling her every move,
and how to do it. She just went ahead, she knew how to work!”
Edith kept us children,
and our kitchen and pantry clean and tidy, and lots more. She made
our school lunches and even sprinkled a bit of sugar on our peanut-butter
sandwiches. She shined the little red apples to go in beside them,
buttoned our coats, tied my bonnet, and we were off for the day.
Edith helped mom with
the wash, which was all done by hand. Water from the well heating
on the big iron stove, large galvanized tub and washboard, small rinse
tub, and these fixed on top of two or three old half-chairs from the back
porch, blocks of home made lye soap, and a long rope clothesline with a
lifting pole from nearby woodlot: those are some vivid memories.
Edith had Thursday afternoons
off, and usually she went up town to do whatever business, shopping or
visiting she wanted to do. She dressed so prettily to go out. Her auburn
hair was a sea of deep and beautiful waves, with tiny curls around the
edges. She looked lovely in her lavender sweaters and light gray or bluish
skirts. To me, she was very pretty and she was my pretend fairy godmother;
that’s because she was so gentle and kind and thoughtful. She told
us the story of how she got her name. Edith
Cavell was a nurse, heroine and martyr. During the first world
war she sheltered soldiers and freed a good many by getting them out of
Belgium and into Holland where they would be safe. For doing that, she
was put to death. The whole world honors her and her heroism to this day.
How secretly jealous I
was when I heard that a Mr. Carl Adams was going to marry “my Edith” and
take her to his home with him! That’s when I was made to realize that I
had a great deal of growing to do! I had clung to her because in my childhood
she had been so special and because my mother treasured her so much. And
Edith always had good things to say about my mother and about the time
she lived with us in Sand Beach. One more little story before I end
this:
The stores in Yarmouth
were closed on Wednesday afternoons to give the clerks a break. One
time the Royal Store up town was advertizing “Wetums Dolls” –dolls that
wore a diaper and could ‘drink and wet’– for twenty-five cents! Even
though I had two dolls, I really wanted one of these baby dolls! Edith
said she would take me with her next Thursday and buy me one. Dolls were
among my favorite toys, but come the happy day, we arrived there, myself
overflowing with excitement, when the lovely young clerk said “Sorry, there
are none left–sold really fast.” Oh, how sad a time that was, no
‘wetums’ doll! And when we got back home, I remember my mother saying something
like “Good, we’ve got enough real live little wetters already, we don’t
need to buy one.”
Years later, I found out
that Edith was living in Kelley’s Cove. I was glad that the Adams
home was right next to Sand Beach where she would feel at home. The
Sand Beach children used to go sliding in winter with their schoolmates,
the Kelley’s Cove children, so it was quite near.
I know that Edith Goodwin
Adams is in heaven with Edith Cavell and all the other angels. May they
rest in peace.
webmaster's addition:
A bit more information on Edith (I think this is correct)
14.*I give, devise and bequeath
my Electric Lamp to my daughter-in-law, Edith Adams, wife of my said son,
Carl Morrison Adams. Source of will=http://209.188.85.247/showthread.php?p=312149
Subject: Halloween
In the 1930s in Sand Beach,
Halloween was celebrated, but nothing like it is today. First of all, it
was spelled Hallowe'en because it is the eve or vigil of the religious
feast of all saints.
In those days there were
no spooky decorations anywhere, only pumpkins of all sizes and shapes.
Children scooped out the seeds from inside their chosen pumpkin, and then
cut eyes, nose and mouth to make what was called a jack-o'-lantern. The
lantern part was made by a lighted candle inside which shone through the
cut-out faces of the pumpkin shell.
[on the Internet I found
something interesting that I never heard before. There we read that the
jack-o’-lantern is "associated chiefly with the holiday Halloween, and
was named after the phenomenon of strange light flickering over peat bogs,
called ignis fatuus or jack-o'-lantern."
Also, one dictionary tells
us that ignis fatuus is "A phosphorescent light that hovers or flits over
swampy ground at night, possibly caused by spontaneous combustion of gases
emitted by rotting organic matter. Also called friar's lantern, jack-o'-lantern,
Also called will-o'-the-wisp, wisp.
Also, "something that
misleads or deludes; an illusion."]
Anyway, as I recall from
childhood, this is what we did in Sand Beach to make a jack o'-lantern.
After the top was cut off and set aside for a cover or hat for the pumpkin,
we took a large spoon and scooped out all the pulp and seeds from the inside,
and then tried to cut out a scarey face on the pumpkin shell.
Parents gave each child
a candle about four inches long which they helped fasten to the inside
bottom centre of the pumpkin shell.
After supper, at dusk
we would go from house to house with these shining and flickering spooky
ghost-like faces and shine them in the windows of our neighbours --who,
naturally were nearly "frightened out of their wits!"
Children wore some kind
of mask, usually home made from oilcloth or even brown paper bags and string
or elastic, so that nobody could recognize us, we believed.
We went to one another’s
homes to do this, and a big part of our great fun was that none of us goblins
spoke aloud, all was done in spooky whispers, moans and groans like ooooooo-ooo.
The adults inside their kitchens at the windows were great performers in
those days which greatly heightened our childish delight!
As opposed to today’s
Halloween, there was no such thing as today's "trick or treat," and no
thought of receiving anything from those we visited. There were no decorations
in yards or anywhere. Our fun was to pretend there were ghosts and goblins
going around the neighbourhood, causing chills and excitement and lots
of fun.
When everyone was back
home there might be milk and a cookie or warm cocoa and a piece of bannock,
and soon it was bedtime which was later than usual, about eight o'clock
for this one special evening,
It caused us to wonder
next day how some real mischief had come about, soap on windows and overturned
wagons or outhouses: were there real ghosts and goblins in our neighbourhood
after we were safe in bed?
In those days our jack-o'-lanterns
were really quite spectacular because there were no outside lights anywhere
and homes did not have electric lights, only rather dim oil lamps, so to
see a little group of children parading around with lighted pumpkins was
quite sight.
Also, whenever the adults
thought we should be on our way, they would pull down the big old green
window blind and cover the window, so we could no longer see them and went
on our way.
It was exciting, simple
and innocent as it was!
Very fond memories of
1930s Hallowe’en.
Marie
Date: 8/9/2009
Name: Marie
Location: PEI
Comments: In 1938, the
Grade two pupils at Sand Beach School, under the tutelage of Miss Clarke,
answered an invitation by radio station CJLS in Yarmouth, to write a letter
to Uncle Bob. Grade Two children in all the schools within listening distance
were asked to write a letter and Uncle Bob would read a select few over
the radio at a certain date and time, so all families were urged to listen-in,
especially families of the young writers. Excitement in all the local
schools was mounting by the day to learn which school would win the top
prize. I was in Grade Two and all of us in that grade had written to Uncle
Bob and Miss Clarke sent our letters to the CJLS station.
Our family had no radio
at home, so Mama asked Bob Calquhoun, and we three listened –sort of--
to this special Uncle Bob program on his battery radio. The radio
was up on a shelf so Bob lifted me up on his knee so that I would be better
able to hear, but I age seven and was so shy to be sitting on his lap that
I began to squirm my way down to the floor. The more I squirmed, the tighter
he held my torso and the tighter he held me, the more I squirmed.
Uncle Bob was busy reading letters and making comments, none of which I
heard. Mama was trying to listen and was embarrassed at my behaviour. I
kept saying to Bob, "Let me down!" But he tried told me to listen, which
I was not able to do, I was that shy and embarrassed at being on his lap
and being held there. So I resorted to telling him if he didn't let
me down, I'd pull up his pant-legs, which I was already doing, and showing
my beautiful young mother his skinny legs covered with long black hairs!
Then HE was embarrassed and my poor mother was totally humiliated, and
so was I, yet felt defiant and vindicated when he did finally let me down.
Just then MY name was given as the writer of the best letter and the honor
went to Miss Clarke at Sand Beach School.
The prize was a book called
"Ruffles and Dandy" which I took home but never read, because I had not
yet learned to read, and my French-speaking parents were not ready to read
me something that was so foreign to their culture, so it remained unread.
That was the very beginning of my writing career, and, even yet, in my
old-age, I still have a great deal of embarrassment as I try to write --for
whatever reason. I hope someone gets a chuckle, at least, out of this –
and my sincere apologies to my latest literary hero, the kindly and generous
and most patient Mr. Bob Calquhoun of Sand Beach.
Date: 6/5/2009
Name: marie
Location:
E-Mail:
Comments: In Sand Beach,
in the 1930s, one of the regular peddlers who came around every week with
his truck selling meat, was a Mr Patten (or Patton?). The truck would stop
in the middle of the dirt road and neighbours would gather and make their
purchases while everyone caught up on most of latest news from a radius
of probably five or ten long miles --who had illness or any misfortune,
who had a newborn, who moved away, who returned, how bad the storm was,
who lost what by lightning, whose boat capsized, and so on.
My two brothers and I
would follow Dad to the road, and most often the kindly Mr Patten would
press a big Newfoundland cent into the palm of our hand, each one! When
he came around in the fall with barrels of apples to sell, we excitedly
emptied our piggy banks to help make up the three dollars to pay for the
beautiful apples, barrel and all! Those were the days! How
could one ever forget such a p;lace and such neighbours! Blessed memories.
marie
Date: 6/3/2009
By the way, I forgot to
tell the story of the time Clyde Wyman, our good neighbour, took
his little sister and me ('me' is correct in this case) with him in his
new little coupe for a Spring drive out to see the new construction of
the airport. The drive was most enjoyable till we got stuck in deep mud
to the axles! Clyde soon had a circle of friends around the scene
and by some effort "got us out of the stuck" --as we little girls later
described the scenario.
It was fun and exciting
--for two of us anyway. Fond memories,
And I mustn't forget
to mention a special gentleman, a Mr LeCain, who drove a nice car,
a 1930s model, and his car would go by, heading toward town, as I would
be on my way down to the Sand Beach School. Mr LeCain never failed to tip
his hat to me each and every time! That's how I learned a little
more about refinement and respect for others, making no distinction.
I felt honored by him. One time he gave me a ride part of the way home
from school on a very cold February day. "Did you get any Valentines
today" he asked.
"Yes, I got nine."
"NONE! no Valentines?"
he asked in a kind of sorrowful tone.
I thought he was teasing
me, so I said,
"Yes, I got NINE, n-i-n-e!"
And he smiled in a voice
of surprise and said,
"Oh, NINE< well that's
a LOT of Valentines."
He let me out at the
end of our lane and I went into the house with a happy story to tell my
mother about getting a rid in a car, and she knew him and told me his name
was Mr LeCain.
marie
Entry Date: 5/29/2009
Comments: From 1934 to
May 1941 our family lived in the lovely Horton house in Sand Beach, and
now I want to relate a few memories of neighbours we had at that time.
I've already mentioned the friendly Cosman family next door.
Down from them was Tracy Goodwin and his wife who was a Knowles.
They had a lovely family of hard working truckers, mostly of coal in those
days, and it was Tracy with his big truck who moved our family belongings
to Dartmouth when my father was transferred there by Canada Customs in
1941. My mother and Mrs Goodwin and I decided to walk to make more room
in the car for my siblings.As we climbed Silver's Hill to the lone farm
house at the top, Mrs Goodwin kept repeating with every breathless step,
"Last place on earth, Mrs Doucette, last place on earth!" In Sand
Beach, her youngest son Carl was my brother's best friend.
On the south side of
the Horton house was the family of Gordon Colquhoun. His daughter
Thelma married Ralph Martinelli who drove a motorcycle and lived in a little
bungalow onWyman Road. I remember Gordon with a back brace he had
to wear from his broken back. Down from him was Ken and Jane Poole.
All I recall about Ken Poole was that he was so tall, his trousers barely
reached down as far as his ankles, and he was the best in the neighbourhood
at playing the game of horse-shoes. His wife, Jane, had a little Kindergarten
in her home, and how I longed to go to her classes, but was too shy to
mention my longing. The Pooles also grew a lovely patch of cultivated strawberries.
Some of us learned, as we reached in under the fence at the edge of the
road, that it took only one of those great big strawberries to almost fill
a child's hand! I know because I had one, and it was delicious, although
I was guilt-ridden as I gulped, and worse, was never able to share the
delectable story with anyone, especially my strict and law-abiding mother!
Straight across the road
from the Horton house, was Mr MacKenzie's little store. When he was not
there it was Kathleen Wyman behind the counter. Mr MacKenzie
was a Boy Scout Master and was often seen in full Scout uniform with the
large brimmed felt hat. Mr macKenzie had a Scottie dog named Angus.
He also drove a Beach Wagon, and it was the prettiest station wagon I ever
saw. Its sides were panelled with beautiful light grain wood. [The only
other similar vehicle I've heard of would be the truck owned by a Mr d'Entremont,
and the picture reminds me of Mr MacKenzie's beach wagon. He used that
for transporting his supplies.
When Mr. MacKenzie was
having a new house built a little south of his store, the workers blasting
rock and all the neighbours were cautioned to beware of flying rock! Some
of us younger and more timid ones hardly dared go outside. I remember
the sound of exploding dynamite and one time I saw a piece of rock lift
a few yards up into the air and straight down again, but no more. We were
glad when that was over. How anyone could plow a garden in that rocky terrain
puzzles me to this day.
Down from Mr MacKenzie
were the Rogers ladies, Mae and Winnie, and they sold lovely candies they
made themselves. They had a wide variety of flavors of taffy kisses
and some made into longer sticks and canes. They made a reddish cocoanut
chewy log called a hunkadory, and then a flat white candy with yellow blob
on top called a fried egg, and those were creamy and delicious. There
were others but those mentioned were the favorites in the neighbourhood.
At Christams time our family received one of their pound boxes of "ends"
of candy and those were as yummy as the more perfect renderings of the
original stock.
The Purney family lived
next door and every fall at Halloween they gave us children a box filled
with beautiful chestnuts! Oh,the games we made up with these treasures!
The Sand Beach school teacher boarded with the Purneys or with the Rogers,
both beautiful large homes.
The teachers there in
our time were a Miss Clarke who was succeeded by Mr Lawrence Doucette from
Quinan, and he had a large family of his own. He travelled by motorcycle
and went home to his family on weekends.
On the north side, going
toward town, there was a railroad crossing, and just before that was a
little place where lived a Mr Bushell (like Bush-Shell) He was fond
of children and liked to make them little toys from wood and especially
popular were his little soldiers made of moulten lead. He would melt the
lead and pour it into little soldier moulds and out would come a shiny
soldier. He gave those fo children who did erranes for him. He was a kind
elderly gentleman.
Not far from his place
but across the road, was a Mrs Walsh, for whom my Dad would get her mail
from the post office up town and take it to her. She gave him a Christmas
gift in the 1920s, a book she signed "Wallace, from Mrs Walsh," a book
by T.C. Haliburton of Nova Scotia, Sam Slick the Clockmaker. That
book is still in the family.
Various peddlars came
around, some with apples, others with fish and meat, and yet others with
a great variety of goods, such as Watkins or Raleigh products so well known
all over the place, but Sand Beach has many more stories of back then when
there was no pavement anywhere and where the Beach was a favorite summer
attraction and the harbour and Bunker Island and Cape Forchu with the beautiful
old light house where many went for a picnic. i remember the nasty experience
I had on Bunker island with a group from school, when I was stunned after
being bunted by a ram! I learned something new that day!
Bless y'all, Marie
Thank you again Marie... G.J.LeBlanc
When I was a little girl living in Sand Beach in the 1930s that beach
down there where the roses line the lane almost to the water's edge, there
were banks of white sand! tons and tons of it, but it's been cleaned out
to the rocky bottom! Ages and ages created that sand and put it there
and many went there every day all summer to play on the beach. Seaweed
was not up on the shore as it is now. Only when the tide went out did we
get to walk on the seaweed and see some of the rocky bottom. There were
treasures in those days coming from a long and glorious-- and always tragic
-- history of fishermen, sailors merchants and the sea. There is
a haunting tale of a woman who lost her husband at sea and when the tide
went out she would go to the beach and walk out as far as she could, in
her nightgown, and call her husband through the fog and mist and with the
foghorn blowing, it was even more eerie. Police had to rescue her when
neighbours would report her out there. She had practically lost her mind
over his disappearance at sea and in her sleep she would sleepwalk to the
beach and go way out and call him at low tide. This was the REAL woman,
not a "ghost". There was no ghost to it, unless it would be her husband
calling back from the deep--who knows, but I never heard of any. This poor
woman never got over her terrible loss and ended up in someone's care.
So tragic and sad! (If I remember right, her name was Scovil, but it's
a long time ago, but that name always stuck in my mind after hearing older
people telling about Mrs Scovill being rescued from the flats at low tide
down at Sand Beach.) That story always stayed with me because it's so tragic
and sad.
Marie
I was amazed to find a picture of the old house I used
to pass by twice a day in the 1930s when walking to and from Sand Beach
to St Ambrose Convent school and church. It was on the right going
up toward the golf links on our way to school. Because I was quite new
there and hadn't walked up that way before without a grown-up, as soon
as we started school the neighbour children told us that a Mrs. Scott was
living there and that children had to be on their very best behaviour when
passing by that house. The rule was that one must look quickly if one wanted
to see it, but not stop and stare at it, just glance that way while walking
past the property, because "Mrs. Scott" lived there and she could see us
going by. They said she would not bother us if we were moving on,
but if we stopped it was hard to tell what might happen. That for
me was exciting and scary at the same time. Some children exaggerated
saying the house was spooky, and it might well have been so.
That's the kind of story older children told us little ones about that
very same house as you have pictured on your website! i was so amazed to
see it that I was almost trembling looking at it, this old 1930s house!
Here it was on my computer seven or eight decades later! (to continue:)
--So whenever we came close to that house, we almost held our breath
until we were past it. We looked briefly , and way up at it, as we
wondered silently, and kept on going toward home. Always we children
kept that place of "Mrs. Scott's" in awe and her too, although we never
saw her. But we were certain that she was watching us through her
lacy window curtains, any time we walked past her house.
The house looked different from any other we were familiar with. It
was not like a box but rather reminded me of a castle or what had once
been a palace. It was gray or unpainted in those days and tall weeds
or grasses grew all around the house, back and front. and on both sides
of the many steps that mounted to her front door. When I was a few years
older I believed it had been the home of a seaman because there was a "widow's
walk" where his wife could climb the turret to watch over the horizon and
the ocean.
This website gives me for the first time in my nearly eight decades
of life some facts about that mysterious residence. So it was an
Inn, yes, i believe it. And also we were told that Mrs. Scott at
night would go up into the widow's walk and watch the harbour and she could
see sailing vessels way out far in the distance.
Sand Beach children had amazing imaginations and they loved to tell
yarns to us littler ones! Such delightful and sometimes scary dreams and
memories they gave us! Their parents must have read them many wonderful
books when they were little to instill in them such imaginations and fantastic
little stories! Such memories!
Thank you! Marie
On
the old houses of Yarmouth from the museum website I think and I learned
it was Ellery and Margaret Scott so the lady in my letter below must have
been this dear Margaret M, widow of husband Ellery S. Scott. Amazing
what one can learn on the Internet, the REAL story of this house that the
children thought was spooky. I also found some Scott history and
genealogy. Mr. Scott and his ancestors were great people according to records.
Why does it seem to me almost a violation for me now --a once timid
child passing the Scott house so often-- to have now invaded the privacy
of that dear widow who had been so reserved during the years we children
were passing by, looking but not daring to stop to greet her, and to bring
her mayflowers?
Nevertheless, this great lady is speaking to us now, opening up some
of her family history for us and giving us a real tour of her mansion there
at 7 Main Street! May she rest in peace.
Marie
Comments: Thanks to Steven
Stewart for his kind words and for reminding me of Freddie Burke
(Bourque) and Leonard Cottreau whom I also remember from years gone
by. I didn't know the Moore family but do remember Ken and Jane Poole
who lived about three houses down from us. Leonard Cottreau
and I were cousins of some degree --if he was related to Emma and Lena.
My father worked in Customs in Yarmouth so whenever relatives in the States
sent huge white canvas commercial laundry bags solidly filled with wonderful
clothing of every size and description, also sundry trinkets tossed in
as fillers, these came addressed in care of my father, and he saw that
Mamma and our designated cousins received their long-awaited treasures!
Large families and very little money was the norm, but some did have
a camera which would be used only on very special occasions, first Communion,
last day of school and so on.
Freddie Burke used to come up from way down the road to walk to catechism
lessons with us on Sunday afternoons up at St Ambrose. He was a very kind
and gentle and humorous young man in his early teens, much taller than
my brother and me, so I really looked up to him. One wet day while
walking up toward town on the dirt road, I spotted a leather wallet in
a shallow puddle and mentioned it to Freddie. I was seven or eight then,
the wallet was soaked and I didn't want to get dirt on my hands. Freddie
asked me if he could pick it up and I said yes, and if he could have it,
and I said yes, and if he could have anything that might be in it, and
since I liked him so much I said yes, so he opened it and exclaimed ONE
DOLLAR! And I was glad he found a dollar inside because he was so
thoughtful to have asked me first. There was nothing but respect from him
for everybody. He was so friendly and kind to my brother and me, and he
had a much longer distance to walk than we had, to and from church, so
i wanted him to have it.
Finally, those bundles of high quality clothing that were sent "Down
East" from "the States", I have leaned since, came not only to Sand Beach,
not only to Wedgeport and other Yarmouth county villages, but also to all
parts of the Maritime Provinces from relatives working "Across".
Later, when I went over to work for five years, one aunt said to me,
'Now it's your turn to wrap and tie parcels and pay the postage, and was
I ever grateful for the honor of following in the footsteps of these hard
working relatives in the "Boston States".
[Now, I wonder why I suddenly am able to imagine the scent of mothballs?
marie :)
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